I don't understand why couples talk crap about one another after the relationship...The so-called love and trust immediately vanishes after the hateful words are exchanged during a break up.Unless something intolerable, like cheating happens, i don't see why you would all of a sudden find so many faults. Chances are, they didn't change overnight, so just because the relationship terminated and you're "over it", doesn't make you eligible to insult your ex. Doing so won't make you look like a better person worth feeling sorry for. What's even real these days? It seems like family and close fews are the only ones who I can respect and trust